Thursday, July 26, 2012

A friend of mine wrote this post, and I couldn't have said it better myself! She is an amazing new mom that I met on "Just Mommies"

On Online Friendships

The internet is very much like the real world - a huge global network in which there are many tight-knit communities. Over the years, I've been fortunate enough to develop some amazing friendship online. These are the kind of friendships that let you be honest - wonderfully, terribly honest. It must be the initial anonymity that fosters this kind of frankness. You know you don't have to see the look in people's eyes if you shock, anger, or disappoint them with your honesty, and that eliminates the risk. Plus, online friends often don't know any of your family or friends, which keeps them objective (or totally biased because they have only your side....either way, it works). There is no pressure to meet for coffee regularly, and nobody gets offended if you don't buy a gift for their birthday.


One such group for me is from the message boards at Just Mommies. I joined in my pregnancy upon the insistence of a real-life friend, and soon I was posting each day in my Due Date Club, which is a group of women who were due to give birth in the same month as me. We spent nine months talking about our pregnancies and getting to know one another. Then, after the births of our babies, we turned into a "Playroom". We now have a Facebook group because it's just so much easier to update from a smartphone, and most of us have a baby in one hand and smartphone in the other. As a group, we have experienced a stillbirth, the untimely death of one of our own members, and family, personal and baby illnesses - but also shared our entire pregnancies, the joy of our births and now we are raising our children "together". There have been arguments and internet hugs alike. One thing is for sure, they are true friends. As a group, they likely know more about me than most of my real-life friends do. When I need to celebrate a triumph or cry on someone's shoulder, they are my first go-tos.

Do you participate in any particular communities online? Have you made hard and fast friendships online? How long have you been friends? I have one online friendship that is in its twelfth year already.

Blog credit: Kim at  http://familybirdsnest.blogspot.com/

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Fluffybutt


I love cloth diapering babies. With Emmalyn, we started with Kissaluv 0's and Thristie XS covers. At 4 months she's finally outgrown them ;) Now we've moved on to small Fuzzibunz! They fit her perfectly and are oh-so comfy. The insides are a buttery soft fleece, button front closure which allows for lots of growth, and a PUL waterproof outer that comes in lots of cute colors.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Little farm in our backyard

Dane's garden. Built and planted all by he and the kids!
Yes, we even have chickens!! Dane's building a bigger coop as our 7 chickens have outgrown this one. Let's see if I can remember their names.. Steve, Bitey, Quickster, Maddie's little helper.. I guess that's all I can remember, all named by Maddy. I'm looking forward to fresh eggs!!

Maddy's bunny "Sweetie Pie"